Because thanking you would mean accepting the pain and anguish you caused him. Thanking you would be accepting the lack of trust you instilled in him. Thanking you would mean appreciating the torment he had to experience before he met me, before he realized just how loyal I am. The ones that woke him up at night in a cold sweat.
We were high school sweethearts. The first year of dating was good.
He was a great boyfriend. When my father was diagnosed with cancer he would come to the hospital after practice and sit with me for hours.
When my father passed away he stepped up and was there by my side whenever I needed. My mom at first did not care for him, but eventually she grew to love him like one of her own and she is still so attached to him.
Each year after that was horrible! He cheated, lied, he let his family disrespect me and he was abusive at times. He eventually went off to college on a football scholarship and I stayed to work and go to school in our city.
Despite the distance I thought we could make it work. One morning I woke up and I no longer wanted to be with him. All the times I said I was done with all the BS he did to me had been building up and I was disgusted by him. He had changed for the worse, not only did the cheating continue but he no longer had any goals.
Everyone and their mama feels that since we were together for so long that I should still be there for him, writing him letters, visits and putting money on his books.
We broke up almost two years ago! I look back and I realize how stupid I was over him. That situation was a learning experience. My question is, am I in the wrong for not being there for him? Am I a bad person for moving on and forgetting about him?
Your letter gave me life this morning! I wish more women were as smart, wise, and about their business as you are.
They claim to be independent, self-sufficient, intelligent, college-educated, and doing it for themselves. But, you shut all that —ish down, recognized your worth, ended the relationship, and moved on with your life. You are truly an inspiration. For years you put up with the lies, cheating, disrespect, and abuse.
Then, you had enough, ended it, and moved on. Two years went by, and your paths took two different routes. You chose empowerment, happiness, and peace.21 thoughts on “ A Letter To My Boyfriend’s Cheating Ex ” Nathan Lindsay on November 19, at am said: I have had a very rough year due to similar events in my life, creating trust issues and nightmares similar to what your boyfriend has gone through.
And neither should anyone. But the problem was, she wanted me to. I’m not writing this so she feels personally victimized from my writing, though, she’s personally victimized me the past couple of years in my former adult relationship.
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I don't know where I should start this letter, and how I should word my apology to make you believe the guilt I'm dealing with right now. Whatever happened yesterday, was the stupidest thing any girl would do.
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